Category: Something Nice…


Jika kamu memancing ikan……
Setelah ikan itu terlekat di mata kail……
Hendaklah kamu mengambil ikan itu……
Janganlah sesekali kamu LEPASKAN ia semula ke dalam air begitu sahaja…….
Kerana ia akan SAKIT oleh kerana bisanya……
Ketajaman mata kail kamu & mungkin ia akan MENDERITA selagi ia masih hidup……

Begitulah juga……

Setelah kamu memberi banyak PENGHARAPAN kepada seseorang ……
Setelah ia mulai MENYAYANGI kamu……
Hendaklah kamu MENJAGA hatinya……
Janganlah sesekali kamu terus MENINGGALKANNYA begitu saja……
Kerana dia akan TERLUKA oleh kenangan bersamamu……
dan mungkin TIDAK dapat MELUPAKAN segalanya selagi dia masih mengingati kamu……

Jika kamu MENADAH air biarlah berpada……
Jangan terlalu berharap pada takungannya dan menganggap ia begitu teguh……
Cukuplah sekadar untuk KEPERLUANMU sahaja……
Kerana apabila ia mulai RETAK ….tidak sukar untuk kamu menampal dan memperbaikinya semula……
Dan bukannya terus dibuang begitu sahaja……

Begitulah juga……

Jika kamu sedang memiliki seseorang…. TERIMALAH dia seadanya……
Janganlah kamu terlalu mengaguminya dan mengganggapkan dia begitu istimewa……
Anggaplah dia manusia biasa……
Kerana apabila dia melakukan KESILAPAN …. tidaklah sukar untuk kamu MEMAAFKANNYA dan MEMBOLEHKAN hubungan kamu akan TERUS hingga ke akhir hayat
Dan bukannya MENGHUKUMNYA dan MENINGGALKAN dia begitu sahaja kerana kamu merasa terlalu kecewa dengan sikapnya
Lalu semuanya akan menjadi TERHENTI begitu sahaja……

Jika kamu MEMILIKI sepinggan nasi……
Yang kamu pasti baik untuk diri kamu……
Yang MENGENYANGKAN dan BERKHASIAT ……
Mengapa kamu berlengah lagi? Cuba mencari makanan yang lain……
Kerana terlalu ingin mengejar KELAZATAN ……
Kelak, nasi itu akan BASI sendiri dan kamu sudah tidak boleh menikmatinya lagi……
Kamu akan MENYESAL ……

Begitulah juga……

Jika kamu telah bertemu dengan seorang INSAN ……
Yang kamu pasti boleh membawa KEBAIKAN kepada dirimu……
MENYAYANGIMU …. MENGASIHIMU ….dan MENCINTAIMU ….
Mengapa kamu berlengah lagi?
Cuba MEMBANDINGKANNYA dengan yang lain……
Terlalu mengejar KESEMPURNAAN ……
Kelak, dia akan BERJAUH HATI dan kamu akan KEHILANGANNYA apabila dia menjadi milik orang lain……
Kamu juga yg akan MENYESAL dan tidak ada gunanya lagi……

Oleh itu janganlah kita terlalu mengejar KESEMPURNAAN kerana ia bukanlah faktor utama KEBAHAGIAAN yang sempurna, sedangkan jika kita boleh memaafkan KESILAPAN orang yang kita sayang dan akur dengan KELEMAHANNYA sebagai manusia biasa serta BERSYUKUR dengan apa yang kita sudah MILIKI… kita akan BAHAGIA, BAHAGIA dan terus BAHAGIA… itu lebih BERMAKNA !

“Begitu hidup ini tiada yang abadi yg patah Kan tumbuh yang hilang Kan berganti, namun yang berganti tidak mungkin sama seperti yang hilang”

It’s not LOVE‏

If you love someone because you think that he or she is really gorgeous…
Then it’s not love..
it’s – Infatuation. ..

If you love someone because you think that you shouldn’t leave him because others think that you shouldn’t…
Then it’s not love..
it’s – Compromise.. .

If you love someone because you think that you cannot live with out his touch….
Then it’s not love..
it’s – Lust…

If you love someone because you have been kissed by him…
Then it’s not love..
it’s – Inferiority Complex…

If you love someone because you cannot leave him thinking that it would hurt his feelings..
Then it’s not love..
it’s – Charity…

If you love someone because you share every thing with him…
Then it’s not love..
it’s – Friendship.. .

But if you feel the pain of the other person more than him even when he is stable
And you cry for him..
that’s – LOVE…

IF YOU LOVE SOMEONE READ

Boy: baby we need to talk

Girl: kyle, what do u mean?

Boy: sumthin has come up…

Girl: what? Whats wrong? Is it bad?

Boy: i don’t want to hurt u baby

Girl: *thinks* oh my god, i hope he doesn’t break up with me… I love him so much

Boy: baby are you there??

Girl: yea i’m here what is so important??

Boy: i’m not sure if i should say

Girl: well u already brought it up, so please just tell me.

Boy: i’m leaving….

Girl: baby what are u talking about?? I don’t want u to leave me, i love you

Boy: not like that, i mean i’m moving far away

Girl: why? All of your family lives over here.

Boy: well my father is sending me away to a boarding skool far away.

Girl: i cant believe this.

[FATHER: (picks up tha other fone, interrupts & yells furiously) ERiKA, wat did i tell you about talking to boys?!!!!!….Get off the damn fone!! (And hangs up)]

Boy: wow ur father sounds really mad

Girl: u know how he gets, but anywayz i dont want you to go

Boy: would you run away with me?

Girl: baby, u know i would, i would do anything for u, but i cant… U dont know wut would happen if i did. My dad would kill me !!

Boy: *sad* its ok i understand i guess..

Girl: *thinking* i cant believe wuts going on

Boy: i need to give u sumthing 2nite b/c i am leaving on flight 1-80 in tha morning, so i need to see you now.

Girl: ok i will sneak out & meet u at tha park

Boy: ok ill meet u there in 20min

[They meet at a nearby park, they both hug each other. And he gives her a note.]

Boy: here u go, this is for you i gotta go.

Girl: *tear* (begins to cry)

Boy: baby dont cry, u know i love you…but i have 2 go

Girl: ok (begins to walk away)

[They both go back home. And erika begins to read tha letter he gave her]

It says…..

Erika,

U probably already know that im leaving, i knew this would be better if i wrote a letter explaining tha truth about how much i care about you. The truth is, is that i never loved you, i hated you so much, u are my bitch and dont u ever forget that. I never cared about you, and never wanted to talk to you, n be around u. U really have no clue how much i hate you. Now that im leaving i thought u should know that i hate you bitch, u never did tha right thing, and u were never there. I didn’t think i could hate someone as much as i hate you. And i never want to see you, for the rest of my life, i will never miss kissing you like before, i never want to cuddle up, how we used to. I will not miss you and that’s a promise. U never +had my love, and i want you to remember that. Bitch u keep this letter bcuz this may be tha last thing u have from me. I hate you so much. i will not talk to you soon bitch…. Goodbye

– Kyle

[ erika begins to cry, she throws tha paper in tha garbage & crys for hours ]

A day passes, she is sad, depressed and she feels so lonely…. Then she gets a fone call….

Friend: how are u feeling?

Girl: i just cant believe this happened i thought he loved me.

Friend: o, about that. Kyle left me a msg. A few days ago. He told me to tell u to look in ur jacket pocket or something…

Girl: ummm ok

[She finds a piece of paper in tha jacket, It says…]

Baby i hope u find this before u read my letter. I knew ur dad might read it, so i switched a few words…

Hate = Love
Never = Alwayz
Bitch = Baby
Will not= will
…….. I hope u didnt take that seriously because i love you with all my heart, and it was so hard to let you go thats y i wanted u to run away with me…
– Kyle]

Girl: omg its a letter, Kyle does love me!!, he must of slipped it into my pocket when he hugged me. I cant believe how stupid I am!!

Friend: lol ok but i g2g… Call me later

Girl: *happy*ok bye, i’ll be at home waiting for my baby to call me !!

…… Erika turns tha T.V. on……

[Breaking news] ‘An airplane has crashed. Over 47 young boys died, we are still searching for Survivors… This is a tragedy we will never forget, this plane was flight 1-80… it was on its way to an all boys boarding school…’ Reporter says.

[ she turns off the tv….3 days later, she kills herself, because of tha fact that Kyle was dead & she had nothing to Live for… ]

….A day after that the fone rings. Nobody answers. It was Kyle, he called to leave a msg. ‘Its Kyle, i guess ur not home so, I called 2 let u know that im alive, i missed my flight b/c i had 2 see u one last time. So i hope ur not worried. I am staying for good. Sorry if u got scared, i promise 2 make it up 2 u everything will be a be ok i love you so much…call me asap bye!’

Sisters

A young wife sat on a sofa on a hot humid day, drinking iced tea and visiting with her Mother. As they talked about life, about marriage, about the responsibilities of life and the obligations of adulthood, the mother clinked the ice cubes in her glass thoughtfully and turned a clear, sober glance upon her daughter

‘Don’t forget your Sisters,’ she advised, swirling the tea leaves to the bottom of her glass. ‘They’ll be more important as you get older. No matter how much you love your husband, no matter how much you love the children you may have, you are still going to need Sisters. Remember to go places with them now and then; do things with them.’

‘Remember that ‘Sisters’ means ALL the women… your girlfriends, your daughters, and all your other women relatives too. ‘You’ll need other women. Women always do.’

‘What a funny piece of advice!’ the young woman thought. Haven’t I just gotten married? Haven’t I just joined the couple-world? I’m now a married woman, for goodness sake! A grownup! Surely my husband and the family we may start will be all I need to make my life worthwhile!’

But she listened to her Mother. She kept contact with her Sisters and made more women friends each year. As the years tumbled by, one after another, she gradually came to understand that her Mom really knew what she was talking about. As time and nature work their changes and their mysteries upon a woman, Sisters are the mainstays of her life.

After more than 50 years of living in this world, here is what I’ve learned:

THIS SAYS IT ALL:

Time passes.
Life happens.
Distance separates.
Children grow up.
Jobs come and go.
Love waxes and wanes.
Men don’t do what they’re supposed to do.
Hearts break.
Parents die.
Colleagues forget favors.
Careers end.

BUT………

Sisters are there, no matter how much time and how many miles are between you. A girl friend is never farther away than needing her can reach.

When you have to walk that lonesome valley and you have to walk it by yourself, the women in your life will be on the valley’s rim, cheering you on, praying for you, pulling for you, intervening on your behalf, and waiting with open arms at the valley’s end.

Sometimes, they will even break the rules and walk beside you…Or come in and carry you out.

Girlfriends, daughters, granddaughters, daughters-in-law, sisters, sisters-in-law, Mothers, Grandmothers, aunties, nieces, cousins, and extended family, all bless our life!

The world wouldn’t be the same without women, and neither would I. When we began this adventure called womanhood, we had no idea of the incredible joys or sorrows that lay ahead. Nor did we know how much we would need each other. Every day, we need each other still.

Pass this on to all the women who help make your life meaningful. I just did. Short and very sweet:

I’ve learned that…

In April, Maya Angelou was interviewed by Oprah on her 70+ birthday.. Oprah asked her what she thought of growing older.
And, there on television, she said it was ‘exciting…’
Regarding body changes, she said there were many, occurring every day…..like her breasts. They seem to be in a race to see which will reach her waist, first.

The audience laughed so hard they cried. She is such a simple and honest woman, with so much wisdom in her words!

Maya Angelou said this:
‘I’ve learned that no matter what happens, or how bad it seems today, life does go on, and it will be better tomorrow.’

‘I’ve learned that you can tell a lot about a person by the way he/she handles these three things: a rainy day, lost luggage, and tangled Christmas tree lights.’

‘I’ve learned that regardless of your relationship with your parents, you’ll miss them when they’re gone from your life.’

‘I’ve learned that making a ‘living’ is not the same thing as ‘making a life.’

‘I’ve learned that life sometimes gives you a second chance.’

‘I’ve learned that you shouldn’t go through life with a catcher’s mitt on both hands; you need to be able to throw some things back…’

‘I’ve learned that whenever I decide something with an open heart, I usually make the right decision.’

‘I’ve learned that even when I have pains, I don’t have to be one.’

‘I’ve learned that every day you should reach out and touch someone. People love a warm hug, or just a friendly pat on the back..’

‘I’ve learned that I still have a lot to learn..’

‘I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.’

~WANITA TANAH~

Wanita tanah dilahirkan dibawah zodiak Taurus (21/4-20/5), Virgo (24/8-23/9) & Capricorn (22/12-20/1).

* Seorang yang boleh dijangka, berwibawa & praktikal.

* Penyabar & bertolak ansur, mempunyai kehendak dalaman dari segi emosi & material.

* Semangat produktif & gigih yang disertai dengan sikap berhati-hati menjadikan wanita tanah berkemampuan memcapai kejayaan dalam perniagaan.

* Kebijaksanaan & kepintaran yang diperolehi sering tersembunyi oleh air muka semulajadi yang pendiam & tenang.

* Sifat marah yang terkawal serta keperluan untuk keteguhan & kawalan sering terbawa-bawa dalam perhubungan yang amat konservatif, serius & sederhana.

* Tidak mudah menunjukkan sifat penyayang tetapi wanita tanah adalah seorang kekasih yang setia & berwibawa.

~WANITA API~

Wanita api dilahirkan di bawah lambang Aries (21/3-20/4), Leo (24/7-23/8) & Sagittarius (23/11-21/12).

* Dilahirkan sebagai pemimpin.

* Mempunyai kekuatan diri & biasanya enggan menerima pendapat orang lain walaupun ianya benar.

* Seorang yang artistik & sukar dijangka, tetapi biasanya romantik & tidak pemalu.

* Mempunyai personaliti suka menguasai & ‘dominate’ tetapi boleh mengimbangi sifat-sifat ini dengan sikap yang pemurah, mesra & menunjukkan sifat yang mendalam terhadap sesuatu yang disukainya.

* Suka berterus-terang & tidak berselindung menyebabkan orang yang dikasihi merasa sedih & terhiris.

* Jujur & mahu hubungan peribadi berjalan dengan lancar.

* Wanita api harus diberikan ruang yang cukup luas untuk menjadikan perhubungan itu terus berkesan.

* Tidak keberatan untuk beralih arah jika berasa tertekan.

~WANITA ANGIN~

Mereka ini lahir di bawah lambang Gemini (22/5-21/6), Libra (24/9-23/10) & Aquarius (21/1-19/2).

* Berterus-terang, berminda aktif & gemar mencari kepelbagaian dalam setiap aspek kehidupan.

* Berfikiran terbuka, mempunyai daya imaginasi & inovatif, bagi mereka segalanya boleh dicapai.

* Bergaya, tenang & tidak cerewet serta mempunyai keinginan semulajadi untuk mengamalkan sikap diplomasi & saling berkerjasama bersungguh-sungguh.

* Sanggup mengorbankan kehendak/idea mereka sendiri demi mencapai keharmonian & mengelakkan perselisihan/konflik.

* Sentiasa gigih untuk mendapatkan cinta yang terunggul, untuk berkonfrantasi.

* Kurang cenderung untuk menyampaikan perasaan sebenar yang terpendam dalam hati mereka.

* Dikenali & diingati kerana sifat romantik & manja.

~WANITA AIR~

Wanita air terdiri daripada mereka yang lahir di bawah zodiak Cancer (22/6-23/7), Scorpio (24/10-22/11) & Pisces (20/2-20/3).

* Mempunyai sifat semulajadi untuk berkembang maju.

* Mereka ini dipandu oleh perasaan hati & mempunyai sifat mudah bersimpati, berdaya imaginatif, sentimental, mempunyai perasaan yang berubah-ubah & berhati-hati.

* Tenang & mudah tersentuh oleh emosi orang-orang yang berada disekeliling & cepat mengeluarkan air mata dalam sebarang situasi yang menyedihkan.

* Mudah mengikut rentak emosi orang lain & juga diri sendiri.

~NASIHAT UNTUK WANITA~

* Untuk membentuk bibir yang menawan, ucapkan kata-kata kebaikan.

* Untuk mendapatkan mata yang indah, carilah kebaikan pada setiap orang yang anda jumpai.

* Untuk mendapatkan bentuk badan yang langsing, berbagilah makanan dengan mereka yang kelaparan.

* Untuk mendapatkan rambut yang indah, mintalah seorang anak kecil untuk menyisirnya dengan jemarinya setiap hari.

* Untuk mendapatkan sikap tubuh yang indah, berjalanlah dengan segala ilmu pengetahuan, & anda tidak akan pernah berjalan sendirian.

Manusia, jauh melebihi segala ciptaan lain, perlu sentiasa berubah, diperbaharui, dibentuk kembali, & diampuni. Jadi, jangan pernah kecilkan seseorang dari hati anda. Apabila anda sudah melakukan semuanya itu, ingatlah sentiasa. Jika suatu ketika anda memerlukan pertolongan, akan sentiasa ada tangan terhulur. & dengan bertambahnya usia anda, anda akan semakin mensyukuri telah diberi dua tangan, 1 untuk menolong diri anda sendiri & 1 lagi untuk menolong orang lain..

* Kecantikkan wanita bukan terletak pada pada pakaian yang dikenakannya, bukan pada bentuk tubuhnya, atau cara dia menyisir rambutnya.

* Kecantikkan wanita terdapat pada matanya, cara dia memandang dunia. Kerana di matanyalah terletak gerbang menuju setiap hati manusia, dimana cinta dapat berkembang.

* Kecantikkan wanita bukan pada kehalusan wajahnya. Tetapi kecantikkan pada murni, terpancar pada jiwanya, yang dengan penuh kasih memberikan perhatian & cinta yang dia berikan. & kecantikkan itu tumbuh sepanjang waktu.

Sebagai renungan…

Jangan tinggalkan orang yang kita SAYANG untuk orang yang kita suka,

kerana orang yang kita SUKA akan tinggalkan kita untuk orang yang mereka sayang…

Jangan cuba dapatkan apa yang kita sayang tapi SAYANGILH dengan apa yang kita ada !!

Hidup tak perlu terlalu sempurna, tak perlu terlalu kaya, tak perlu terlalu terkenal,

tetapi selagi masih ada INSAN yang mengingati, ia sudah lebih dari mencukupi.

Persahabatan yang sejati akan membawa KERINDUAN yang abadi.

Sesungguhnya persahabatan itu lebih unggul dari percintaan,

tanpa persahabatan PERCINTAAN akan berakhir

tetapi tanpa percintaan PERSAHABATAN boleh kekal.

Oleh itu hargailah persahabatan yang terjalin..

SELALUNYA kita tdk menyedari bahawa ada insan yg lebih MENCINTAI diri kita.

One of the most memorable case studies on Japanese management
was the case of the empty soap box, which happened in one of Japan’s
biggest cosmetics companies.

The company received a complaint that a consumer had bought
a soap box that was empty. Immediately the authorities
isolated the problem to the assembly line, which transported
all the packaged boxes of soap to the delivery department.
For some reason, one soap box went through the assembly line
empty.

Management asked its engineers to solve the problem.
Post-haste, the engineers worked hard to devise an X-ray
machine with high-resolution monitors manning by two people
to watch all the soap boxes that passed through the line to
make sure they were not empty. No doubt, they worked hard
and they worked fast but they spent whoopee amount to do so.

But when a rank-and-file employee in a small company was
posed with the same problem, did not get into complications
of X-rays, etc but instead came out with another
solution.

He bought a strong industrial electric fan and pointed it
at the assembly line. He switched the fan on, and as each
soap box passed the fan. It simply blew the empty boxes out
of the line.

Moral of the story: always look for simple solutions.
Devise the simplest possible solution that solves the
problem.

When NASA began the launch of astronauts into space, they
found out that the pens wouldn’t work at zero gravity
(Ink won’t flow down to the writing surface). In order
to solve this problem, it took them one decade and $12
million.. They developed a pen that worked at zero gravity,
upside down, underwater, in practically any surface
including crystal and in a temperature range from below
freezing to over 300 degrees C. And what did Russians
do………………..??

The Russians used a Pencil !!!

So, learn to focus on solutions not on problems.

“If you look at what you do not have in life,
you don’ t have anything.”

“If you look at what you have in life, you have everything.”

1. Sekurang-kurangnya ada 5 orang dalam dunia menyayangi anda dan sanggup mati kerana anda. …. .. ..

2. Sekurang-kurangnya ada 15 orang dalam dunia ini menyayangi anda dalam beberapa cara. …. .. ..

3. Sebab utama seseorang membenci anda adalah kerana dia ingin menjadi seperti anda. …. .. ..

4. Senyuman daripada anda boleh membawa kebahagiaan kepada seseorang, walaupun dia tidak menyukai anda….. .. ..

5. Setiap malam ada seseorang mengingati anda sebelum dia tidur….. .. ..

6. Anda amat bermakna dalam hidup seseorang….. .. ..

7. Kalau bukan kerana anda, seseorang itu tidak akan hidup bahagia….. .. ..

8. Anda seorang yang istimewa dan unik….. .. ..

9. Seseorang yang anda tidak ketahui menyayangi anda….. .. ..

10. Apabila anda membuat kesilapan yang sangat besar, ada hikmah sebaliknya….. .. ..

11. Sekiranya anda merasakan anda dipinggirkan, fikirkan semula; mungkin anda yang meminggirkan mereka….. .. ..

12. Apabila anda terfikir anda tidak mempunyai peluang untuk mendapatkan sesuatu yang anda ingini, mungkin anda tidak akan memperolehinya, tetapi sekiranya anda percaya pada diri sendiri lambat laun anda akan memperolehinya….. .. ..

13. Kenangilah segala pujian yang anda terima. Lupakan segala maki hamun, caci umpat cela….. .. ..

14. Jangan takut untuk meluahkan perasaan anda; anda akan merasa senang bila seseorang mengetahuinya….. .. ..

15. Sekiranya anda mempunyai sahabat baik, ambillah masa untuk memberitahunya yang dia adalah yang terbaik. Hanya seminit diperlukan untuk mendapat sahabat baik, sejam untuk menghargainya, sehari untuk teman tetap paling setia. walaupun punya harta yang banyak, teman tetap paling berharga….. .. ..

I’ve learned

I’ve learned
That I can always pray for someone when I don’t have the strength to help him in some other way.

I’ve learned….That the best classroom in the world is at the feet of an elderly person.

I’ve learned….That when you’re in love, it shows.

I’ve learned….That just one person saying to me, “You’ve made my day!” makes my day.

I’ve learned….That being kind is more important than being right.

I’ve learned….That you should never say “no” to a gift from a child.

I’ve learned….That I can always pray for someone when I don’t have the strength to help him in some other way.

I’ve learned….That no matter how serious your life requires you to be, everyone needs a friend to act goofy with.

I’ve learned….That sometimes all a person needs is a hand to hold and a heart to understand.

I’ve learned….That simple walks with my father around the block on summer nights when I was a child did wonders for me as an adult.

I’ve learned….That life is like a roll of toilet paper. The closer it gets to the end, the faster it goes.

I’ve learned….That we should be glad God doesn’t give us everything we ask for.

I’ve learned….That money doesn’t buy class.

I’ve learned….That it’s those small daily happenings that make life so spectacular.

I’ve learned….That under everyone’s hard shell is someone who wants to be appreciated and loved.

I’ve learned….That the Lord didn’t do it all in one day. What makes me think I can?